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我的拳交故事
作者原文 你好，我是@s1010343 来自香港，今年27岁，玩拳交已经2年多，今天来分享一下我是如何开始玩拳交。 2年前的我虽然一早知自己是同志，但因性格内向也不认识同志圈内人，一直都是自己玩玩具居多，偶尔会付费找人跟我玩10。直到有一次付费找了一位在广州天河区附近的S才正式开始玩拳交。 那时的我刚接触SM，那位S一开始就问我：「后庭最多能接受多大的玩具？」，我就回：「最大玩过5. 6cm的玩具。」他就问我有没有兴趣试一下拳交，他属于小手类型，大约6左右就能进。可能因为我注定离不开拳交，于是我点头答应试看看拳交。 那位S用纯熟的技巧帮我放松后庭，我再闻了R后，他就慢慢将拳头塞入我的菊花（现在回想那位S相当厉害一次开拳就成功），当时的我只感到疼痛难忍，一点爽的感觉也没有，后来感觉到我开始适应，他的拳头在里面慢慢的动起来，说实话，感觉仍是疼大于爽的。第一次拳交很快就结束。 隔了一天后，感觉又想试一试拳交的滋味，我又再去找那位S玩拳，这次经历让我我毕生难忘。那位S一开始只是慢慢的拳让我适应，然后开始把手拿出来再塞进去，再来开始快拳快出，最后对着我的前列腺用力猛击。而我由一开始感受菊花被塞满，到菊花被撑开收缩后再撑开，到菊花外翻，喷尿潮吹，鸡巴流精，后庭高潮，身体发抖，最后趴着昏迷，过了大约半小时才醒来。自此都明白到我这辈子也离不开拳交了。 这就是我第一次拳交的经历，也欢迎大家分享玩拳的趣事，欢迎来骚扰我，笑。 FG评论第一次就这么猛，真的好勇敢，后来的高潮听起来超强烈，羡慕你这么快就找到自己的极致爽点～ 2年多玩下来越来越爽最重要！不过新手期还是要注意充分热身和润滑，保护好自己哦，继续玩得开心！小提醒：Rush虽然能帮放松，但用的时候要适量、注意通风，别和伟哥之类的混用，心脏不舒服或头晕时就先停一停，照顾好自己最重要
The Long Game
What 20 Years of Fisting Taught Me About Safety, Patience, and Myself People ask me all the time how I got started. The honest answer is that I got started badly. No guidance, no community, no one telling me to slow down. I learned through trial and error, and some of those errors left marks. That's why I talk about this stuff now. On my podcast Brolapse, in interviews, in my book Deeper: An Anti-Memoir, and in every conversation I have with someone who's curious. Because the information I didn't have could have saved me a lot of pain, and not the fun kind. Here's what I wish someone had told me on day one: this is not a race. Fisting rewards patience more than any other sexual practice I know. Your body is not a problem to be solved. It's a partner in the experience, and it will tell you everything you need to know if you listen. Start with good lube, and lots of it. J-Lube, X-Lube, or a quality water-based gel. Silicone has its place, but for depth work, nothing beats a thick water-based formula you can reapply freely. Never use numbing agents. Pain is information. If something hurts, that's your body saying stop, reassess, add more lube, or try a different angle. Numbing that signal is how injuries happen. Preparation matters. A clean body is a confident body, and confidence is half the game. Take your time with your enema routine. Warm water, not hot. Go slow. Don't rush it because you're eager to get to the main event. The prep is part of the practice. And breathe. I cannot say this enough. Deep, steady breathing is the single most important technique in fisting. More than any trick with your hands, more than any toy progression, your breath is what opens you up. When you hold your breath, your body tenses. When you breathe, it yields. I've been doing this for over two decades. I've been on Howard Stern. I've been called names I wear with pride. I wrote an entire book about the life that this practice shaped. And after all of it, the advice I come back to every single time is the simplest: slow down, breathe, communicate, and respect the body you're in. Whether you're just starting out or you've been at this for years, the fundamentals never change. Safety is not the opposite of intensity. It's what makes real intensity possible.